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Almost heaven, West VirginiaOnce upon a time in Huntington, WV... 5월 7일 Sealed with a Kiss几个小时以后,我就要离开Huntington,两年世外桃源般的生活就要画上一个句号了。
两年,在这个小城,有一段多难忘的日子。这段经历,会让我一生回味。亲爱的朋友们,谢谢你们给了我这么多美好的回忆。
THANK YOU FOR YOUR GOODNESS.
这些回忆,就放在这个space里,就这么收藏,就这么拥有吧。
I seal this space with a kiss.
2007年5月7日 4월 29일 Goodness RecognitionAs it is the season for graduation, today's church service centered on "Senior Recognition," recognizing the kids of the church who will graduate from high school or college this May.
It was a touching scene when the grads were called to the front for individual recogntion. When each grad proceeded to the front with their proud parents, photos of the grad were projected onto a big screen to share with the church members moments of their growth: the days when they were babies and toddlers, when they performed as young ballerinas or had their first football games, when they hanged out with their childhood friends and family members, ... up to today when they are full-grown young adults. The young grads were apparently embarrassed with their photos shown in this fashion, but from their smiles you could tell it was a "sweet" embarrassment.
"You are loved," the church Elder announced when all the grads gathered at the front, "You have the love of those behind you [the church members]; you have the love of those beside you [parents]. Remember our love is always with you when you step onto the next stage of your life."
It was very sweet. And touching. Reminds me of a friend's comment: it feels so good when you are loved. Indeed. Love gives you strength and self-confidence -- especially when you are at the very beginning of your adult life with this gnawing share of insecurity.
When Skip (the pastor) invited me to the events and services at this church to "have a look," he said he meant to show me the good part of American life, the part that is not necessarily readily available in mass media. Give yourself a big applause, Skip: You did it. I saw and was very impressed by this charming part of American life with people who care and love from the bottom of their heart. As cynical as I tend to be, I have come to believe, after two years of being immersed in the goodness of the people around me here, that when people show they care, they are not necessarily just putting on a show. True, there are people who are just great actors, but underlying many people's efforts to be "nice," there IS actually "kindness."
In the face of goodness, cynicism just seems so out of place. 4월 27일 Memory recoveredLao Wu's man worked magic -- again! All my files and photos have been retrieved -- all of them!
好感激啊。那可是两年的work和memories啊,could have been lost forever!
都不知道该怎么感谢好。这两年,我这宝贝电脑没少给我生事儿,幸亏老吴,每次心惊肉跳最终都化险为夷。言身寸言身寸!
感:
Seriously begin to wonder if there actually ARE angels in one's life who just show up when one needs help most.
悟:
Karl said he had to "freeze" my hard-drive before recovering the data. He literally froze it in a refrigerator! 所以说:遇到状况,不用慌,“冷处理”还是很管用的。 4월 25일 你好,再见!今天最后一次汉语课。
为了留念,给学生们拍了个集体照: A picture of this very hard-working class in this humble little Corbly Hall classroom: 茄子!
也拍了一小段录像--每人说两句汉语吧。最经典留言:“你好……, um [with a charming smile] …… 再见!”
"So she can show people she taught here," a student teased. 赫赫~~ 没错儿。
I've had a great time working with these hardworking and sweet students. 有机会的话咱们中国再见!
4월 23일 Memory BackupWell, when my husband bought a three-year warranty for my Dell computer just before my US trip, he certainly was driven by pretty good instincts. As it turned out, my darling Dell computer has made every effort to make sure that our three-year global warranty is worth every fen of it.
Within one year, the battery failed to work. Dell America replaced it. Within a year and a half, the screen failed to put on a show. Dell Shanghai replaced it. I almost began to congratulate myself on my good luck, when, a couple of days ago, towards the very end of my full-of-lovely-memories stay here, the hard-drive was down -- with these many memories on record.
My Dell is still under warranty, so I can still have my hardware replaced by Dell when I'm back in Shanghai. But whether the records can be retrieved is another story. Lao Wu's computer man is trying to save those memories. "There is a chance of getting them back-- not all of them perhaps, but [there is always this "but"] there is no guarantee." Well, fingers crossed, but, had better prepare for the worst.
Tangtang said I reminded her of that Carrie from Sex and City, who lost everything when her computer was down. Carrie was mad when asked "Didn't you have any backup?" because she did not even know what a backup was! Give me five, Carrie!
Well, a not-too-bad part of the story is: although I do not have backup for all my work here, I do have backup for my most important work. The sad part of the story is I'd suffer a great loss of the pictures I took here--the very vivid record of my life here--if Lao Wu's computer man couldn't work magic this time. I have no backup for them except the ones in my space -- maybe my space would end up as the window God opened for me if He meant to erase the memories on my hard-drive. He'd better not -- I pray...
Lesson to learn:
成事在人
ALWAYS, ALWAYS HAVE A MEMORY BACKUP! 4월 20일 When A Child is Born
Colleagues: When a child is born, even Dolmetsch the Grumpy makes an effort to be sweet! p.s. The baby girl's name is Annika, that well-behaved, well-dressed friend of Pippi Longstocking . ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 今天final project完成了presentation。至此我的degree classes全部完成了。 下课之后,跟Man告别了--Project合作那是相~当地愉快。[握手告别,郑重其事地。] 今天恐怕就是最后一次见面了。好聪明能干的一个越南小伙子。以后前途无量。祝福祝福。 4월 17일 智邻疑子 [转自黑三角]Virginia Tech校园枪击的gunman身份今早确认是一个韩裔Legal resident。但在真相揭晓之前的种种传言,真让人不知说什么好。南桥今天一篇“智邻疑子”,说得很入味。给大家分享一下:
昨天在网站上看到很多传闻,说弗吉尼亚杀死33人的亚裔男子是在上海拿到签证,经旧金山入境的中国人,喜欢独来独往。我在想:什么意思?难道怀疑我?我不是亚裔男子吗?不正是在上海拿到签证的吗?不正是经旧金山入境的吗?不正是喜欢独来独往吗?所以我昨天写了两篇博客,证明自己很忙,作为不在场证据。
看到传闻的时候,如果你去福克斯新闻、CNN这些大网站去查,都说“可能是亚裔男子”。中国外交部也说,身份未曾证实,请大家不要胡乱猜测。反倒是一些中文网站(包括海外中文网站)纷纷看到此人疑为中国人一说。其实这个说法蹊跷。美国枪支泛滥,但是对外国人来说,又是另一回事。对外国人来说,限制是无处不在的。从上海签证出来的中国学生,持F1签证,办个钓鱼证还差不多,弄个持枪证,继而买来能杀死三十三人的枪弹,这不大可能,除非他勾结上了黑帮,在黑市买了枪。在网上,我们还看到一个说法,说这人是因为“成绩不好”而怀恨杀人。
现在真相大白,是一个持美国绿卡的南韩学生,8岁就到了美国。那么当初那些谣言为什么会迅速传播呢?
我昨天看到一电视台主持人在采访时说,人们试图在make sense of the senseless (理解不可理解的东西)。
那么人们如何理解不可理解的东西呢?那就是往一个熟悉的思维模式上套。多半情况下,这是人们认识世界,理解世界的好办法,但是在这种非常规事件中,你还按原来规律去算牌,就会失算了。可能有人在想:前些年卢刚因丢失某奖项而杀人,所以好,中国人在乎荣誉,分数,因为成绩不好,就怀恨在心,杀人解恨。这么一说,不可理解的就变得可理解,我们就给了我们大脑一个交代了。然而世界上好多事情,并不是这么顺利成章,否则CIA就应该能够推算出911, 印尼能够掐算出海啸,中国就应该能避免文革。如果这样,应该让软件工程师统治世界,因为他们能够根据各种事件的逻辑发展,编出相关程序,作出必然预测。
如果这事情真是中国人干的,对我们打击会很大。留学生在外不容易,可是也不悲惨,一个个在自我奋斗而已,有的还成就斐然。怎么就不肯正眼看人呢?可是很多人时刻准备着看他们的笑话。比如他们在外,就有人说他们是“留学垃圾”;有的人选择回去,就说他们混不下去。要是这凶杀的主角真是中国人,就更能说明他们处境之可悲可怜可叹可耻了。有人还列出一连串中国留学生出国后发生的凶杀,这能说明什么呢?说明中国人才培养失败了,培养了一群杀手送了出去?这或许能让个人的不满有个寄托,却未必接近事实真相。
杀手一九八四年年一月十八日出生于南韩,一九九二年八岁时随父母移民来美,事发前在英文系就读,独来独往,情绪不稳定,厌恶“富家子”,厌恶“纵情声色”,厌恶“骗子”。这能说明什么呢?这一切要素合在一起,作为一个个案,能反映一些问题,引发人们的思考,但是千万不要太聪明,见风就是雨,想也不想就跳至结论。不是所有八十后都是杀手。不是所有南韩人都有暴力倾向。不是所有不好色的人都跑去杀人。不是所有在英文系读书的人都会读疯。 2007年4月18日 4:25
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下午出门,看到Fire Station那里的美国国旗降了半旗。It was a great tragedy. 4월 15일 厨艺今天做了Deviled Eggs:
于是,继孜然牛肉、黄瓜蟹柳salad、鸡肉西芹之后,本人又增加了一个让大家吃着说好的dish。
以前在家里,我的角色一直都是:坐、享。
如今,热爱厨房的LG要是吃到这一道道菜,估计都要热泪盈眶了!
4월 14일 一碗阳春面
Against Bad Luck昨天13号,星期五。
早上上课去,校园里的paths上,到处写着那首赞美诗:
The Lord is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name's sake.
Psalm 23: 1-3
以前在一个书签上看到过这首赞美诗,配着蓝天白云,一池净静湖水,一片绿草地,很美。今天学生们写满这段,据说是为了guard against back luck。
中午上汉语课,Barry带来了Deviled eggs!Good Friday那天上课,也就那么一说:Maybe you can bring the deviled eggs to class sometime. 这么快就兑现了!好,我们今天吃这Deviled eggs,正好以毒攻毒!
这不是我们昨天吃的Deviled eggs照片,不过跟我们吃的蛋长得一样儿~~好吃啊~~ 一天下来,顺顺当当。该给这诗和这蛋记一功。谁料,这破网络不配合,照片怎么也挂不上。这devil,大约是怀着嫉妒吧,那简直是一定的! 4月14日,星期六,Black Friday翌日补记 4월 11일 吃什么Chinese I 学生写的对话一则:
A: 你要在哪儿吃早饭?
B: 餐厅,好吗?
A: 你要吃什么?
B: 我要吃狗。餐厅的狗怎么样?
A: 你很怪。不可以吃狗。他们没有。
B: 没有狗……为什么?
A: 不知道。你吃鸡,可以吗?
B: 我不喜欢鸡。
A: 你喜欢猪肉吗?
B: 有点。
A: 好的。你吃猪肉吧。
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嘿嘿,今晚食神下厨,我们吃鱼羊。
心态在美国的家电市场,Haier是个 "new kid on the block." 被问到怎么看待美国家电市场的四大重量级竞争对手,Haier America的president说:
"We don't look to compete with them, because they are much bigger than we are. The way we look at it is that they are really cooperators or customers. We also can call them teachers. I don't consider them competitors. We believe we have our separate position in the market, and they have theirs. They can step on us anytime they want, because we are so small compared to them in the United States. So we don't look to compete. What we do is try to find our own position."
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正如一位同学多日来观察到的那样,这些天我睡得真是越来越晚了。
“赶在抬屁股走人前你终于入乡随俗了!” 4월 9일 视角, 鞋子, worry dollEmma那里看到几个很Q的图,转来贴贴:
当年看Dead Poets Society时候,对Keating这话印象很深。
呵呵,该穿上鞋回家了吧~~
想起Good Friday那天,在20街的Church看到的:
4월 7일 “压在纸背的心情”在看The Haier Way。成功的故事看起来总能让人感到鼓舞,何况是海尔这样一个ashes to glory的案例。
两个作者都是在美的华人。作为一本案例书,自然得“客观。”作者对海尔和它背后的中国纵然有百般感情,落到笔端,自然要理性理性再理性,万万不可露情。不过,between the lines,总能隐隐感到作者对海尔和它的legendary CEO发自肺腑的钦佩,以及对更多中国企业的期待。
这就是陈平原所谓“压在纸背的心情”吧。 4월 6일 Happy B Day, son!今天是David 6岁生日。
网上视频,David光着PP被爷爷从bathroom拎出来换裤子,进了卧室大叫:“别在这屋儿~!别让妈妈看见!!”
嗬,让我立刻刮目相看。我儿长大了!抱在手里的小胖肉,一眨眼已经是小伙子一个了。
“唉,生日这么快就要结束了!”B-Day尾声,David很有些失望地叹口气,“要是天天过生日就好啦。”
要是天天过生日,你很快就老了,“老”爸“老”妈也更名副其实了~~ 咱们慢慢地一年一年来。
儿子,生日快乐! 4월 5일 share个storyLG公司要去参加一个"企业内外沟通"的round table,得了一个讨论案例,很有意思,share一下。
一条裤子引发的故事 一个小男孩弄到了一条裤子,自己很喜欢,但是穿上后才发现裤子太长了,不适合。于是找到了奶奶,央求她给改一下。但奶奶说现在的家务事太多,忙不开,让他去找妈妈。于是小男孩找到了妈妈,可妈妈正在和人打桥牌,没时间。最后小男孩没办法只好去找姐姐,但姐姐说有约会,时间就要到了。小男孩很失望,怀着失望的心情睡着了。过会儿,奶奶忙完家务事了,想起了小孙子说的事,于是就把小男孩的裤子剪短了。妈妈打完牌后,也剪短了一截。姐姐回来后,也剪短了一截。可想而知,小男孩的裤子会变成什么样。
很多企业也会有这样的情况,员工像小男孩一样无助。而管理者呢,要么都不管,要么都来管。您的企业存在这样的问题吗?有没有小故事中妈妈、奶奶、姐姐所代表的工作类型的管理者?您会如何面对这些类型的员工?您认为各部门之间如何达成顺畅并有效的沟通?
管理是个充满智慧和挑战的工作,但智慧的人们,你的裤子有多长?你是第几个剪这条裤子的人?还是你根本就从没剪过? 4월 2일 我该坚强些刚跟LG通过电话,David烧退了,荨麻疹也下去了很多。放心了~~
昨晚一时郁闷。。。Thank you, Grace, for being there.
哎,真是,should gather myself. 我该坚强些! 3월 31일 生意,无处不在中学同学开了个MSN群。同学们充分利用上班时间一心八用,目前在热火朝天地卖被子。
起因:LF和HY同学伉俪在日本经营床上用品,主打产品蚕丝羽绒被。这被子我们近水楼台享受过了,那是木目~当~的舍予~服~。LF同学的弟弟在国内做内销。两方生意均蒸蒸日上。如今国内人民的睡眠要求随着生活水平的提高节节攀升,两同学开始想在国内市场趟开一片天地。
目标首先选定同学云集的北京市场。MSN上一呼即应。在北京的同学们积极响应。Bird同学制定出了农村包围城市的市场推广策略,宣称要从同学们的主要居住区--五环以外--开始蚕食市场,最终蚕食到天安门广场。开始以为大家只是在MSN上耍贫,没想到还是真枕头真被地见了行动。北京的同学们把市场培养目标先锁定在自己居住小区,利用小区业主论坛发布消息,培养客源。Bird同学的博士不是白读的,MSN上跟LF同学一番紧密咨询,MSN下一番research,洋洋洒洒图文并茂生动诙谐地编制了“床上用品知识手册(讨论稿)”让还没有需求的地方长出需求,如今是小区业主论坛置顶帖子。目前,小区业主已经纷纷开始向她订货。Bird同学五环外第一个农村根据地成功建立,并开始向纵深发展 -- 因市场需要,目前“床上用品知识手册--枕头专题”已经出炉,估计床单专题也是a matter of time了。
都说这产学研一条龙,做咨询的Emily同学也开始跟进,要把这做成营销管理案例。还有人大新闻学院的研究生同学借此论坛平台,作调查问卷,研究“服务于住宅小区居民网络平台的信息传播特征及对人际关系的影响。”
上海的W同学是人民警察,面对MSN上如此热烈的讨论,问:大家都不用上班吗?
Emily同学认真地回答:这也是工作的一部分! 3월 29일 钱包复得记出门丢钱包,我这已经不是第一次了。汗哪!
上一次,跟梁欣从Las Vegas坐Coach到LA。在LA的香港超市结帐,发现钱包不见了。汗!梁欣赶紧打电话给Coach司机,我们的老墨司机说丢在车上了。谢天谢地!当晚拿回了钱包,对老墨印象非常好。
这一次,从Amish Country回来的路上,在某highway exit的Wendy's吃饭。钱包让我笃笃定定放洗手间了!晕啊。到了South Charleston的中国店,才发现钱包不见了。那天hot,大汗!千幸万幸的是:Grace留了Wendy's的receipt。Amazing Grace啊,小票儿不留则已,一留就是最需要的时候!赶紧给Wendy's打电话。一周以后,今天,钱包从Wendy's寄来了。
这两次我都算走了大运。谢谢淳朴的美国人民,谢谢梁欣,谢谢Grace。Mmmmah!
事不过三,下次再丢钱包,恐怕就没这么好运气了。以后出门旅游,钱包一定要好好带在身上;为了双保险,有必要让同行的人了解本人的历史,提醒着我点儿。
希望以后别再有这种玩儿得心跳的事儿了。 3월 23일 Delay一场急风急雨,我们的航班delay了。
这一延误,让我在Huntington机场等了两个小时。心里窃喜:正好把周五的presentation最后润色一下。我不急,其他被delay的人看起来也不急:聊天的,看书的,聊电话的,跟我一样在电脑上忙的。。。小孩子们叽叽喳喳地做着游戏。
因为delay,到了Charlotte机场转机时,已是落日西下。那夕阳又圆又大又灿烂,在空旷的机场上尽情挥洒着落日余晖。。。毕竟到了南方,空气一片温润。
一程晚,程程晚。再从Charlotte起飞,已经是literally披星戴月了。飞机上俯瞰Charlotte,一片灿烂灯火,非常漂亮。。。
行走人生,像人在旅途,说不定有什么风雨就会让你的航班delay,有时可能会晚好久,以至耽误了下一程的航班。一程晚,程程晚,可能会让人觉得非常frustrated。
不过,is that a big deal?
航班误了还有后续航班的,不过晚了几个小时,最终还不一样到达目的地。何况,晚了几个小时,却见到了别样的风景。有失就有得,这世上罕有一悲到底的事吧。一场风雨造成的delay,说不定就是个blessing in disguise。
某魔鬼词典说:所谓乐观主义者,就是硬把昏天黑地说成阳光明媚。哈哈~~,总比硬把阳光明媚说成昏天黑地好吧。
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到了President Dawson家,已近半夜。Hartsville已是春暖花开。下车,一片虫声。。。
住进这南方的大宅子,又有了《飘》的感觉。。。 3월 17일 旅游心情 -- before departureChinese III班上一篇学生作文:
暑假,我要跟朋友去欧洲。我很动情!我想看很多东西,比如艾菲尔铁塔和威尼斯运河。
在欧洲的时候,我们拟下榻在朋友家。我不曾去欧洲,我的朋友也不曾去欧洲。我发愁。我不想迷失!并,我们不知道好饭店。我们也不知道欧洲火车。
虽然很多东西我不知道,我还是想去欧洲。不知道一切很让我兴奋。
这篇文章念给Vivian听:哈哈~~,就像很多中国学生写英文作文,在汉英词典里查出一个词就用,也不看合不合适。
念给老妈听:嗯,从语言学上看,这就是register的问题。
再念给要出发去旅游的自己听:呵呵,非常理解作者的心情。 3월 14일 Spring's in the air今天气温再创新高,80度。上课的路上,看到树上的buds已经开始绽开,校园的花坛里也开出了小花。穿夏装的人更多了,下午望窗外一瞄,一位美女已经开始在游泳池边tan了!
下午把毕业典礼的行头备齐,回来的路上daydream着hooding的情形。May是春暖花开的好时节,这毕业典礼要在冬天,恐怕心情会降温不少。
外面春气盎然,人在房间里,心痒痒的。用Grace的话说:天气太美了,要不是有课,definitely要去enjoy the sun。
吃完晚饭,小曹和Vivian踏着夕阳健身去了。我备好课,再也忍不住了。明天要下雨,周末又要降温,春光大好放过可惜,于是开始找人出去散心。最后拉到了很久没见的一个日本朋友。
天气好,Pullman Square的人很多。Starbucks的生意也很忙。跟Kimi很久没见,聊啊聊。。。看着一批又一批的人来了又走。天色还亮的时候,一个Chinese I的学生经过Starbucks,“Hey!”敲敲窗子跟我打招呼。天色暗了,人家电影也看完了:“You are STILL here?!” 女人啊,总是有说不完的话。想起以前跟好友见面,从中午12点一直hang到晚上12点,LG在家边哄着David睡觉边忿忿:12个小时啊,聊什么就能聊这么久啊?!
今年这春天来得矜矜持持,暖几天就要再冷几天。我们去Amish Country那两天估计也会给我们脸色看。哎,本着不以物喜不以己悲的原则,just take whatever nature bestows us吧,反正Spring is already in the air了。 3월 10일 Spring午后茶今天最高气温一下子升到了20度!
一杯Zen tea,一份Black Bottom Cupcake,一本架上书 For One More Day,在Starbucks度过了一个休闲下午。
For One More Day:一个对自己心灰意冷的人,回到hometown,要在自己生命开始的地方结束自己的生命。在老家,他见到了自己已经去世的母亲,陪她度过了一天。For one more day,儿时被爱的回忆都被唤起。把一个自暴自弃的人从死亡的边缘拉回来,只需要让他重新去爱自己;要让他能重新爱自己,只需要remind him that he was loved。
信吗? 3월 8일 节日快乐!今年妇女节是这样度过的:
北京时间3月8日上半天,跟LG终于给爸妈订好了机票 -- 爽事一桩:等来了cheap, cheap offer!
北京时间3月8日下半天:slept on my problem -- mid-term case
美国东部时间3月8日白天:写,写,写,accomplished my mid-term case。多谢Tangtang的支持和鼓励!
美国东部时间3月8日晚上:终于可以喘口气享受一下节日了,于是,聊天!
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This is a reminder to you to celebrate yourself!
If you ever need an "official" reason - today is the one! Have a good day today and always! 不愧是原来的苏联同志,还惦记着今天是International Women's Day!
I did have a very good day today and ... did celebrate myself by ... forgetting to eat my dinner!
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